خواطر من خلف الفاترينة

Fri, 08/12/2005 - 22:12

يللا بينا يا بنات
يللا نقف في الفاترينات
يللا نلبس الفساتين
يللا بينا نبقى حلويين
لأحسن العرسان جايين
مش مهم دماغنا إيه فيها
ماحدش حيهتم بيها
شباب مصر يطالب الآن...
الهيئة: مزة
المخ: عصفورة

Comments

  1. إنسان خردة للبيع (not verified) Says:

    ليه التعميم .... أيوا أنا معاكى أن كتير من الشباب عايزين مخ عصفورة و سعات مش عايزين مخ من أساسه لكن فى قلة مندسة بينهم بيدوروا أن المخ ميبقاش مخ عصفورة .... و المشكلة انهم مش بيلاقوا

    حكاية البحث عن مخ العصفورة - فى رأيي الشخصى - هو نتيجة القوالب الجاهزة اللى بيتربى عليها المجتمع من وهو لسه بيتعلم المشى كل إنسان بيتعود انه لازم يكبر و يخلص علام وجيش يشتغل يجوز يجيب عيال عشان يعلمهم نفس الحدونة
    وبالنسبة للجنس الأخر نفس السيناريو مع الفرق انهم هما اللى بيخلفوا الجيل التانى
    مع هذا السيناريو الناس مش عايزين الا مخ عصفورة

    فيه عدد قليل بيقدر يكسر القالب ... لكن فى كتير من الأحيان ميقدرش يستمر
    مرة تانية ده اللى أنا شايفه

  2. Eman M (not verified) Says:

    I like your words so much ya Shamousa, howa sa7e7 not al the guys think this way, but the majority do.

  3. Shamoussa (not verified) Says:

    ميشو، إيمان.. أشكركم
    أنا معاكم طبعاً إن مش الكل بيفكر كده، لكن فعلاً الأغلبية
    بدون تجريح يعني، أنا أظن أن التربية الشرقية هي التي تجعل المرأة في عين الرجل عروسة متزوقة و حلوة و تجعل الرجل لا يطيق إحتمال تفوقها عليه فكرياً. يعني باختصار كده: عايز واحدة على قد إيده، يقدر عليها

  4. mizo (not verified) Says:

    just a question about: "el ragel la yateek en merato tatafawwak 3aleh fekreyyan" howa leh lazem wa7ed yatafawwak?! i think this is the problem, again el 2awaleb el gahza as expressed in a previous comment, men searching for "wa7da 3ala 2add 2eedo" and women either having mokh 3asfoora w betdawwar 3ala dell ragel elli a7san men dell el 7eeta or 3andaha mokh akbar men mokh el 3asfoora so she looks for a man 3ando mokh 3asfoora to be in charge:) and then afterwards they come and say: "el gawaz nezam egtema3y fashel" howa el mafrood keda yenga7?!?!:)

  5. Delingooo (not verified) Says:

    You just wrote something I was very much thinking about. But I have a interesting theory concerning the relationship between men and women in the eastern world and hopefully I will have it posted on my blog very soon.

  6. sydalany-وش مكرمش (not verified) Says:

    الموضوع مش معقد كده

    ببساطة اللي عاوزة واحد ياخدها من الفترينة حتتجوز واحد حيزهأ منها مع أول ريحة بصل

    و اللي تتجوز واحد و هي ملتزمة بشكل معين أو بفكر معين على الأقل حيوافق على الفكر ده بدل ما تشيل الفكر في التلاجة و تفاجئ جوزها بيه

    سؤال
    مصنفة نفسك إيه
    مزة
    و لا عقل
    ولا مزة بعقل
    ولا ولا مزة ولا عقل؟

    :0p

  7. R (not verified) Says:

    يا صيدلاني/وش مكرمش..

    مش هم قالوا زمان:
    كل فولة ولها كيّال
    وكل فولة مسوسة لها كيّال أعور

    ...

    فكرتيني يا شموسة أكتب بالأصالة عن نفسي وعن بني جنسي:
    خواطر من خلف الڤترينة

    الراجل ما يعيبه إلا جيبه
    وضل راجل ولا ضل حيطة
    وإحنا بنشتري رجالة

    والإنسان لا يكيّل بربع جنيه مخروم

  8. The Sandmonkey (not verified) Says:

    Shamoussa,

    It's a two way road. It's not like the girls don't also want someone who looks good, has money,who can make her life easy and give her something to brag to her friends about. It's part of the society we live in: mogtama3 mazaher. It's all about presentation: looks, family, money, education. Personality plays second fiddle to all that, mainly because it's not only the guy and the girl who make the decision to be together, it's their families as well.

    I used to joke with my friend Sally how since i came back from the states i am more of a concept than a person. I am 24,US educated, from a very respectable family, have a good job that pays well and i am single. Do you have any idea what i go through on like weekly basis? The family members that have 3arayess for me, the contsnat lectures from them how "el gawaz noss el deen", the girls who are only interested in me because they want to get married. There is a girl who on our second date asked me when i was planning on proposing to her: I was like "What? are you kidding me? Marry you? I have only gone out with you twice, i am not even sure i like you." She got all huffy and left. Whatever.

    I would also tell her that what's even funnier is the reaction of my male friends: half of them have become "super islamic dudes" who will only date girls who are Muhajabta, and the other half are the biggest bastards ever. They go and propose to girls we ye2roh el fatha with their parents so that they can go out with the girls men gheer 2ala2 and hook up with them. They were like " You should've met her parents and then broke it off after nailing her. Breaking off an engagment is now 3ady,hell, tala2 after 3 months of marriage is now an acceptable fad". That's the kind of shit that surround me.

    And she would tell me that I have it easy: She is 25,has an american passport and has no desire to get married anytime soon, and her family is freaking out over that. Everyday grandma has a nice doctor to introduce her to; she ends up in "fix ups" without even knowing half of the time. And the fact that she has an "american passport" is making her much more desireable is freaking her out. Men just want to marry her to get the greencard. Nevermind who she is or what she is like: they don't care. They want the passport, so they propose to her like the day she meets them. It's freakin her out that there are men willing to marry her because she is "american". I often tell her that she is lucky, cause banat keteer fe masr mesh la2yeen gawaz and she is getting like 5 offers a week and she is declining them. I guess 3o2det el khawagah is alive and well in this country.

    Look, it's a messed up system, cause it's not based on respect for the boys or girls. We are told that a girl is useless without a husband, and we are told that a man is no good unless he finds "bent el 7allal", and yet no one can explain to me why that is. Why the fixation on getting people married and making them have kids? Howa a7na 3andena na2s sokaan wallah 7agah? Or is it because marriage is such a joy that we want to share it around? Matseeboh el nass fe 7alha.

    I have a cousin and she is exactly my age, and she is hot, and she gets shit from my aunt daily for not agreeing to marry someone until now from the 40 something suiters that knocked on her door. She cries to me that she feels as if she is useless to them, a burden. As if there is something wrong with her unless she gets married. The hell with her being in love with that person or being attracted to them. 7ob eih we hebabh eih? Dah alsoh kalam 3eyaal.

    So in the end, what i am trying to say is: It's not the men. It'snot the women. It's our society and its lack of respect to individuals, their freedom and rights to choose. When Parents stop viewing women as a burden, men as a soloution and both as adults that have the right to chose their own path in life; when we stop vieiwing marriage as a busines stransaction and people as concepts; When the rules are made by us and not by our parents or society, then and only then there will be no need for the "Vatreena". Bas until this happen, i am sorry to report that things will stay the same: women will be solely judged based on beauty and men based on monetary value. Those are the rules we are forced to play with, thanks to our traditions, values, culture and, last but not least,Families.

  9. Shamoussa (not verified) Says:

    Mizo: The man can run away, el 7etta beto23od le7ad ma tethad, so el 7etta is actually more useful!

    Delingo: wainting for your post

    Saydalany: Mosh 7a2ollak ana basanaf nafsy eih.. Consider me a soul, an existence, kayan ensani

    Dr. R: Rabena yekhalik we tedafe3 3ani keda dayman

    Sam: Nice to know there is a kela mondasa who thinks this way ;)

  10. The Sandmonkey (not verified) Says:

    shamoussa: lol. te2ooly eih ba2ah. asly 3ameel amrikany!;)

  11. Nour (not verified) Says:

    و هتيجي عالجرح ليه بس يا شموسة :(

    الكلام ده صحيح..هو ممكن مش كل الولاد بس منكرش ان الأقلية المندسة اللي مبتفكرش بالطريقة دي دي لا تزيد عن %15
    بالكتير قوي

    الغالبية العظمى ممكن تقبل ببنت دماغها كويسة كصديقة و ليس أكثر

    الله أعلم يمن أغير الرأي ده بس هو رأيي حتى الآن

  12. Ebles (not verified) Says:

    تدوينة جميلة ، بس انا بقيت حاسس ان فيه مسورة حقوق نسوية فتحت في قرية المدونيين

  13. Lasto-adri *Blue* (not verified) Says:

    إخص خيبة الله عليهم..
    هو لو التفكير كدة يبقى مش عايزة أتجوز أصلاً

  14. Socrates (not verified) Says:

    إزاي ما قريتش التدوينة دي أثناء ما ضرب النار كان شغال؟ أو ربما لسة شغال؟
    جميلة فعلاً يا شموسة

    :)) ابليس: حلوة حكاية الماسورة دي، قال يعني بقى انت ملاك وملكش دعوة خالص، مش الموضوع كله بدأ من عندك يا بو الأباليس؟ :)) ا

  15. johnson (not verified) Says:

    This is my problem in life i am searching for a beautifull girl with a brain, if u know one just tell me, :D